Stay their friend
You do not need to manage their treatment or become their only support. Keep room for the things you usually enjoy together. Ask whether they would like invitations even when they often say no.
If you do not know their GP or care team, you can still seek advice about a concern. For urgent help, use the route where they live; you do not need to find their GP first.
For unanswered messages, privacy and passing concerns to a professional, use keeping in touch and knowing when to get help.
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Last full source check for this relationship advice: 5 October 2026
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Last full source check: 5 October 2026
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