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If you need support tonight

You may be frightened, exhausted or unsure how much longer you can manage. This page is about help for you.

Do one thing nowCall someone who can listen, or tell one trusted person plainly that you are not coping. You do not have to solve the other person's situation before asking for help for yourself.
Are you in immediate danger? Call 999 or go to A&E. If you need urgent mental-health help for yourself in England, call NHS 111 and select the mental-health option.
Source: NHS
NHS urgent mental-health guidance. Routes differ across the UK; use the nation-specific urgent page.

If you need a person to listen

  • Samaritans is free and available day or night. It offers confidential listening. You do not have to be suicidal to call.
  • SANEline supports anyone affected by mental illness, including family and friends. It is open from 4pm to 10pm every day.
Sources: Samaritans and SANE

Words you can use with someone you trust

Ask for company“I'm not coping very well tonight. Could you stay on the phone with me for a while?”
Ask for practical help“I need you to take over one thing for me tomorrow. Can I explain what would help?”

Mind recommends sharing how you feel, being realistic about what you can do and sharing the caring role where possible.

Source: Mind

If the immediate pressure is the person you support

If you are worried that they may harm themselves or someone else, or their condition has deteriorated quickly, use the urgent guide. It separates immediate emergencies from urgent mental-health help and gives the correct route for each UK nation.

Open urgent help

Tomorrow, reduce one part of the load

Carers UK provides practical advice about benefits, assessments and support. Its helpline is open Monday to Friday, 9am to 6pm, on 0808 808 7777. A local carers service may also offer one-to-one support, counselling or help arranging a break.

Sources: Carers UK and Carers Trust

Here for Someone is an independent information project. It is not a helpline or medical service. This page organises public guidance from the organisations linked beside the relevant information; it has not been clinically reviewed by Here for Someone.

Sources checked: 27 August 2026

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