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Supporting someone with bipolar can take a lot out of you

The unpredictability, money worries and aftermath of an episode can affect you even when the other person is doing better.

Your support matters, and so do your limitsAgree what you can offer, share the load where possible and use support that is open to friends and family.

Bipolar UK support is open to you

Bipolar UK says its free services are open to everyone affected by bipolar, including family, friends, carers and colleagues. Its current options include a peer-support line, an online community and in-person or online groups.

These are not crisis services. Bipolar UK directs immediate risk to 999 and lists Samaritans and NHS 111 among urgent support options.

Source: Bipolar UK

Set a role you can sustain

Bipolar UK advises discussing the other person's expectations alongside your own needs and responsibilities. It says that taking a break, saying no and seeking your own support are reasonable.

A boundary can be practical: which calls you can take, what money you will not lend, when you will contact professional help and which tasks need to be shared with someone else.

Source: Bipolar UK

You do not have to call yourself a carer

Rethink notes that people may find carers' services useful even when they do not use that word for themselves. Depending on where you live and how much support you provide, local carer services may offer advice, groups or an assessment of your own needs.

Sources: Rethink Mental Illness and Carers UK

If you need someone to listen today

Samaritans listens to anything that is troubling you. You do not have to be suicidal to call 116 123; it is free and open 24 hours a day.

Source: Samaritans

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Sources checked: 26 August 2026

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