If they are unsafe now
If their life is at risk or you cannot keep them safe, call 999 or go to A&E. Call 999 or go to A&E after a suicide attempt, serious injury or possible overdose, even if they seem well. Find urgent help by UK nation.
Independent signposting for adults supporting under-18s. Not clinically reviewed; legal information has not had specialist legal review. How we use sources.
YoungMinds’ parent guide to suicidal thoughts provides fuller child-specific support. Use the urgent route above if help cannot wait.
Ask clearly, and listen
YoungMinds advises asking directly about suicide. You could say: “Are you thinking about ending your life?” Asking does not put the idea into their head. Give them space to answer, take what they say seriously and thank them for telling you. Avoid arguing with their feelings or trying to make them feel guilty.
If they will not talk, you can still seek professional advice. Silence, or saying they have no plan, does not establish that they are safe.
Bring in professional help
Contact their GP or mental health team promptly about suicidal thoughts. For concerns that cannot safely wait, use urgent help. Tell the service what they said and any concerns about preparations or access to things they could use to hurt themselves. Ask for advice on keeping them safe while help is arranged.
YoungMinds' parent guide to suicidal thoughts gives fuller conversation and support guidance. This page is not a risk checklist.
Ask for a plan you can use together
Ask the treating team to explain who to call, what to do if things worsen, and how they will involve you and your child. Tell them if the plan assumes supervision or support you cannot provide. Getting care and support while waiting.
Someone to support you
If you need someone to listen, call Samaritans: 116 123, free, day or night. Use emergency care when needed. Support for your own wellbeing.
Sources and review status
Scope: adults supporting a child or teenager under 18 in the UK. NHS urgent-help guidance governs emergency actions; nation-specific NHS and statutory sources govern local routes. YoungMinds adds supporter conversation and service-navigation advice.
Last full source check: 12 October 2026
This is a source and signposting check, not clinical approval or a specialist legal review. Local service eligibility and availability must be checked with the provider.
Independent information, not a medical or crisis service. This guidance has not been clinically reviewed. How we use sources.
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