When asking for help
- Give the full picture. Describe the mental-health changes, what has been used, when, and any immediate risks or physical symptoms.
- Ask who is responsible for the next step. Ask the service to record both sets of needs and explain which team will coordinate the response.
- If a service refuses, ask for that decision in writing. Ask what service is being offered instead and pass on any new or worsening risk.
If they are passed between services
If the answer remains unclear, use when mental-health services say no. That page explains how to ask for the decision and reason, send new information and use the complaints route for each UK nation.
Find alcohol or drug support
Find treatment routes in England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland. Tell the service about the mental-health concerns too, and ask how both needs will be addressed.
Do not advise an alcohol-dependent person to stop suddenly
The NHS says a person who gets withdrawal symptoms when trying to stop or reduce drinking should get medical help first. A GP or specialist alcohol service can advise on treatment. An adult usually needs to agree to assessment and treatment, but you can still ask a professional for advice if they refuse. How consent works and when to seek urgent help.
Support for family and friends
Adfam
Adfam supports families affected by drug or alcohol use and lists family services and resources. Adfam for families.
UK SMART Recovery Family & Friends
Its meeting finder includes online and in-person Family & Friends groups. Find a SMART Recovery meeting.
Sources and how this guide was written
Guidance sources
FRANK says to call 999 for an ambulance if someone needs urgent help after taking drugs or drinking and to tell the crew everything you know.
Sources for England: NICE and UK Government guidance
Last full source check: 27 August 2026
Consent and seeking advice wording checked: 7 October 2026. Sources and explanation.
Later checks: Northern Ireland resource route checked: 1 October 2026.
Independent information, not a medical or crisis service. This guidance has not been clinically reviewed. How we use sources.
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